On the morning of Mother’s Day, I set out on the streets of Cusco in search of an adequate bouquet of flowers to give to my host mother. I wasn’t expecting to find anything spectacular because I have learned over the months to never expect to find what you are looking for while shopping in Peru. Peru is filled with beautiful markets, but what you find is generally a surprise. I have come to both love and hate this aspect of Peru.
On Mother’s Day the streets were crowded with people buying last minute gifts. Cake and card venders lined the streets with a full stock of products. As I walked past the shops, eyeing the cakes, I could hear various vendors shouting out their low prices on Mother’s Day cards. However, I was search of flowers and all I had seen so far were plastic roses. I was beginning to realize my assumption about not finding any flowers was correct. That is, until I turned the corner to see the entire next street lined with an array of fresh (well, depending on the vendor) flowers. I picked out a pink rose and white daisies and headed on my way back to Ollantaytambo. The bouquet made it home rather well considering that on the way home, I was wedged between a man on one side and a woman and her 7 or 8 year old son on the other. I held my bags on my lap and clutched the flowers firmly as we made our way through the windy mountain roads.
I take that back, the bouquet looked a little sad by the time I got home. My mom accepted them with a smile anyway. I noticed that the rest of my host family was in the kitchen as well. As usual, they insisted I enter the kitchen at once and drink tea with them. They all asked me how my trip to Cusco had been. While I did what I could to explain my trip, my host sister dished up the banana cake she had made that morning.
After breakfast, my oldest host sister asked me if I wanted to help cook lunch. Of course, I said yes and she handed me a bowl of abba and a knife. I should have predicted that my role would involve cutting vegetables into tiny pieces. My family seems to get endless enjoyment out of watching me try to cut vegetables without a cutting board. Which explains why this is always my role. They particularly like demonstrating the correct technique while I focus on not cutting my fingers off. This particular day my little sister even went as far as to tell me that what I was doing looked, “scary”. After this, I figured I should retreat to my room in an attempt to protect my hands.
Later, my sisters called up to my room to inform me lunch would be ready soon. As I made my way to the kitchen, I glanced into the cuy (guinea pig) cage, as I often do as I pass, and noticed a new baby had recently been born. It turns out, this was particularly beneficial because we were about to eat its two older brothers for lunch. I was so excited that we were finally going to be eating cuy. My family has literally been talking about this meal since the day I arrived, but I didn’t know when it was going to occur. I saw the two little cooked cuy bodies in the pan and I ran upstairs to get my camera. My family was actually really excited about this and ushered my camera and me into the kitchen. My host mom had the idea to pose the cuyes with a potato in their mouths and subsequently moved them around the pan, placing them in various positions as I took pictures.
BEFORE:
We finally sat down for lunch and I took a moment to contemplate how I was going to eat my quarter of the cuy body. My family noticed my hesitation and thought I was weary about trying cuy for the first time. In fact, this was not the case. Despite the fact that these animals have greeted me every time I entered the house for the last month, I felt no reservation about eating the poor little animals. I just couldn’t figure out how to go about doing so. I felt as if I had been in training for the last few months and that it had all culminated in this moment. What I mean by this is that the meat eating technique in Peru is rather different than in the United States. For the most part meat is served on the bone and all particles of meat are then cleared from the bone during the eating process. It has taken me a while, but I have become quite accustomed to this technique. It’s true, at first I stuck to my tradition of using a full set of utensils and cutting the meat into bite size pieces. However, after a few months of getting the question “aren’t you going to eat the rest of that”, I have learned to recognize that, yes, there is still a minuscule amount of meat left on that bone. keen eyesight and the use of both hands is essential when eating meat in Peru, and especially when eating cuy. Though I found my experience with cuy incredibly fun and entertaining, I can’t say it is now my favorite food. I have to admit that the taste isn’t anything spectacular, and even though the tiny ribs are rather cute and make you feel like a giant when eating them, there really isn’t much meat in a cuy at all. Regardless, I was delighted to have tried this new food and my family was delighted that I was able to consume my entire plate of food. I know this because at least three of them asked the sister sitting next to me if I was able to finish, to which she replied, yes!
Lately, I have found myself reflecting on my opinion of the various aspects of Peru more and more often. Today I realized that Mother’s Day was a nice mix of some of my favorite characteristics of Peru. Starting with the various markets, interesting food, and the willingness of the residents to share their culture and home with someone who at one time was a perfect stranger. Furthermore, I always delight in spending time with my host family. Though at times it has been a struggle to communicate, we have always had laughter in common.





















































